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		<title>Why don&#8217;t women just have sex?</title>
		<link>http://justmakeitbetter.com/2009/12/04/why-dont-women-just-have-sex/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 04 Dec 2009 18:54:54 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Nicole</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[ 
 photo by: ¥§•ªˆ¨ˇ© LOVE © ˇ¨ˆª•§¥&#8217;s
 
Woman #1: &#8220;What do you do when you are really attracted to a man, but understand there&#8217;s no chance to have a future with him? As in yeah, maybe he&#8217;s nice and will treat you okay, but in the end he&#8217;s fundamentally wrong for you. What do you with [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Monogamy, for every man?</title>
		<link>http://justmakeitbetter.com/2009/11/25/monogamy-for-every-man/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Nov 2009 18:45:49 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Nicole</dc:creator>
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photo by: lj_scampo
Recently, a gay man revealed sexual fidelity doesn’t exist in the Land of Just Penis.
He went on to explain that gay men have open relationships. Unlike the common monogamy in heterosexual relationships, it’s perfectly acceptable to be committed and have a boyfriend on the side simultaneously. The partner knows about this side fling [...]]]></description>
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		<title>My lover is Seth Godin.</title>
		<link>http://justmakeitbetter.com/2009/09/11/my-lover-is-seth-godin/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 12 Sep 2009 02:44:24 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Nicole</dc:creator>
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photo by: yodel anecdotal
I love him like the way people love cookies or Pixar. There&#8217;s just something about Seth.
Whenever I read his books, blog or watch a talk I feel fuzzy inside. It doesn&#8217;t matter if the topic is relevant or not, he always gets me inspired. I admire him in a way typically reserved [...]]]></description>
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		<title>If you&#8217;re looking for love. The kind of love that makes your soul feel full.</title>
		<link>http://justmakeitbetter.com/2009/07/23/if-youre-looking-for-love-the-kind-of-love-that-makes-your-soul-feel-full/</link>
		<comments>http://justmakeitbetter.com/2009/07/23/if-youre-looking-for-love-the-kind-of-love-that-makes-your-soul-feel-full/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Jul 2009 17:24:27 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Nicole</dc:creator>
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Thinking about becoming single but fear it? Ever suddenly find yourself single?
After healing from a breakup, gaining the interests of new suitors can feel like a struggle. As I enter new stages of life I see how much harder it can be to get to know people intimately.  These rules of adulthood sure [...]]]></description>
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		<title>&#8216;Dems Fighting Words</title>
		<link>http://justmakeitbetter.com/2008/04/28/dems-fighting-words/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Apr 2008 18:02:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Nicole</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[When I would argue and fight with my ex it was usually a brutal bitch fest filled with derogatory anger.
I was pretty cruel. But I always believed it was just my reaction to him, and if HE stopped his ways, I could stop mine too.
We both had our fair share of assholery, but I can [...]]]></description>
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		<title>At Least Someone Wants Your Sex</title>
		<link>http://justmakeitbetter.com/2008/03/10/at-least-someone-wants-your-sex/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 11 Mar 2008 01:25:33 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Nicole</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;m not skinny. I&#8217;m not chubby either. I&#8217;m the girl who would&#8217;ve fit in perfectly during the 1950&#8217;s; curvy and fair.
I think I&#8217;m sexy. Some other people agree and some don&#8217;t, but either way I&#8217;ve still received my fair share of attention.
I&#8217;ve been gawked at like a celebrity, hit on like a playmate, but couldn&#8217;t [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Separation: The Key to Everlasting Love?</title>
		<link>http://justmakeitbetter.com/2008/02/08/separation-the-key-to-everlasting-love/</link>
		<comments>http://justmakeitbetter.com/2008/02/08/separation-the-key-to-everlasting-love/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 08 Feb 2008 17:55:56 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Nicole</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[&#8220;If a couple really wants to test their love they should try sharing a five hundred square foot apartment.&#8221;  - Me
My boyfriend (let&#8217;s call him J from now on, as boyfriend is getting old) and I met while living on the same block.  I used to live about three houses down from him [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Buying The Cow</title>
		<link>http://justmakeitbetter.com/2008/01/31/buying-the-cow/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 31 Jan 2008 19:14:10 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Nicole</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Some people have mentioned  the dynamics of my living arrangement, given the concept &#8220;why buy the cow if you can get the milk for free&#8221;?   I understand the logistics of their thinking.  If you give someone all that they would want, then why would they take the legal and financial leaps that [...]]]></description>
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		<title>I Hate Weddings</title>
		<link>http://justmakeitbetter.com/2008/01/10/i-hate-weddings/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 10 Jan 2008 20:51:22 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Nicole</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;ve spent the last few years of my life participating in  standard marital celebrations. All my experiences have been similar but after one such party I felt the full impact of its redundancy; something I think many people can relate too.
Since the announcement I had not seen the newly betrothed girl so I walked up to [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Teaching A Man To Fish : How to Buy Gifts for your Boyfriend, Wife, or Anyone you really like</title>
		<link>http://justmakeitbetter.com/2008/01/06/teaching-a-man-to-fish-how-to-buy-gifts-for-your-boyfriend-wife-or-anyone-you-really-like/</link>
		<comments>http://justmakeitbetter.com/2008/01/06/teaching-a-man-to-fish-how-to-buy-gifts-for-your-boyfriend-wife-or-anyone-you-really-like/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Jan 2008 02:29:39 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Nicole</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Every year around a holiday (no matter what one) my introverted boyfriend goes into a tizzy about having to think of things to purchase for everyone. He complains about it because he kindly does not want to disappoint those that enjoy the whole charade, while conflictingly dislikes the ridiculousness of the obligation.  I hear [...]]]></description>
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