Why blogging is kinda stupid, JMIB Changes & Thank you.

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Whether a regular reader or not, this post will give you some insights on blogging, business and getting back to being yourself. I’m shifting things here at JMIB. Read on to hear about why and what is coming – it’s worth it.
Initially created to explore writing, entrepreneurship and help people, I’m afraid this site has become my emotions translated into a blog.
Making it into a full fledged business without bastardizing it would be nearly impossible given my subject matter. To keep it as is, monetization would be solely based on traffic. And for everyone that doesn’t know anything about the world of blogging and monetization: developing said traffic is extremely rare and difficult, and easiest when built off of scammy work or tedious, off-putting effort.
Two things I am not about.
The market is saturated with writers clambering for some inkling of attention. They distract themselves from their own purpose and clutter up an outlet for those who are actually decent.
I’m unwilling to leave comments on how great someone’s post is (especially when it’s not, and everyone commenting is clearly doing so in an effort to be seen, rather than contribute anything worthwhile) when I’m not really impressed, nor do I care about what mindless SEO fodder they’re perpetuating.
Blogging solely for income or Internet fame is, for most, a waste of time.
(Content is NOT KING, if it were Hollywood wouldn’t keep making money off of Saw sequels.)
For the past few months, discussing JMIB, running it and working it into a business has done nothing but make my head hurt and my relationships suffer.
I wanted to see about this as an entrepreneurial pursuit, but I don’t think it’s going to work. At least not right now. At best it has become an amazing vehicle for me to go to things with Hugh & Seth. Perhaps then it will lead to more.
[I digress – for those who think about blogging as a possible business -
Those that do succeed while maintaining their authenticity, do so because they have a very clear product (tangible or information-based) that parlays into a specific market of followers and out of them comes customers. They also have luck, great networking skills, confidence and passion to get them out of bed at five AM to get massive shit done. And they deserve their success. Having met a few, they aren't any better than you or I, so it's definitely possible to win at this game.
But there are way more easier ways to become an entreprenuer. And for now, I'm focusing on that route.]
BTW, FOR ALL YOU SCANNERS – THIS IS WHERE IT YOU SHOULD READ
I am going back to doing things like in the beginning of JMIB’s inception:
Sharing stories and ideas that really have made my world better.
I don’t try to write like some super copy editor, slimming my work down to dazzling headlines and researched sources. That is not what I am good at and trying it has me feeling like a sell out.
I am good at baring my soul & telling my truth.
In the hopes that someone is moved enough to redirect the course of their life and live how they wished they always could. To become the happiest person. To always be more than what they ever dreamed.
I write Just Make It Better because this is my effort to find and apply the knowledge that will change my world and the one around me. I aim to learn as much as I can, while staying open to the idea that I know nothing and everything I know isn’t right. Through this, and my writing, I aim to save you yours.
Because I see the moreness in everything, (mostly you – the one who doesn’t comment and of who I know nothing) and would like it to come out and play.
That’s what I want from this site. That’s what it is going to be now.
Don’t hate me if I don’t write on a schedule – what happens here, happens in my life, in my mind and in my heart. Sometimes getting that all aligned takes more time than I’d like.
I’ll never leave your forever though. If our relationship ends, it’ll be far warned and with a gracious bow.
I appreciate you so much.
Those of you who Google the site name and share my posts. The ones who have the same IP coming back again and again. The ones who come.
Exposing myself like this is difficult because I do it as my true self.
There’s no pseudonym or fabricated stories. I say what everyone else thinks and feels in an effort to show you that we all feel pain and we all screw up. I’m no different. The only difference I’ve come to know is that it’s through these experiences that I become a better me. And through that I can change the world I know.
If I can help those around me spring up from their falls by knowing my story, then so be it.
I’ve been there! I’ve been the One with the Broken Heart. The Racist. The Angry Child. And so much more.
Thank you for listening.
May you always challenge your heart and provoke thoughts in yourself and others.
We are here to help each other. You give me the strength to keep opening up and letting go. With these changes I’d love to have you stay. I’d love to have you tell the world my ideas and my words in the hopes that it will help us all to live our dreams, in every imaginable way.
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Im happy and sad.. for u….
October 4th, 2009 at 5:00 pmBut continue writing..im enjoyin reading the posts,when u do post..;) and i know others..* even tho they dnt comment or say anything to u..* will miss the blog when u dnt write..:)
I love ur posts!
October 5th, 2009 at 11:52 amIf feels great when I check my cell and there’s an email with JMIB in subject.
Keep them coming!
C.J & Kristie,
Thanks for the encouraging words. I’ll still write (for sure) and it’ll be even better (I hope).
October 5th, 2009 at 8:09 pm
nice post!
October 6th, 2009 at 10:53 amcindy´s last blog ..Naked Food Fest
As someone who blogs for others, for a living, I am up to my eyeballs in SEO and monetization.
I say it can be done, but you do have to sacrifice a certain level of authenticity. Becoming a superstar blogger that can make money with no SEO/ self marketing whatsoever, just by sheer charm and personality? Not going to happen to me, not going to happen to most bloggers. But there are ways to make money online, and I’m proof. I get to work from home, be with my kids when they need me, and make decent money. I’m content.
October 16th, 2009 at 8:03 pmvered | blogger for hire´s last blog ..A Beautiful Winter Poem, and a Rant on SEO
Vered,
Hey there!
I agree with everything you said. I think that is my experience has shown me that. Sadly it’s also shown me I am not cut out for it. At least not in the present.
October 16th, 2009 at 8:35 pmI think this is a wonderful, wonderful post and I am glad I happened upon it. I deeply understand where you are coming from. Believe me.
Have a wonderful evening.
October 20th, 2009 at 11:04 pmWriter Dad´s last blog ..This is As Close as I Come to Begging
I tried to convince myself that Andrew Keen’s synopsis of blogging on the internet was not correct, but he was right. I agree with you that so many people clog up the blogosphere that it is hard to gain a footing.
My wife told me one day that I was essentially placing my work on the floor by blogging and that I shouldn’t be surprised when no one picks it up to read. When I was offered the chance to blog at Psychology Today I accepted it without hesitation.
My first blog post received 1000 reads in one day. 1000!!!
At PsychologyofSuccess it took me 2 1/2 months and 8 articles to get that much traffic. Venue, placement and where you offer your wares is everything. I hadn’t improved my writing skills in that short time period. I just placed my work in an environment where it would be respected and more importantly, sought after.
I hated the fact that I spent so much time working on blog posts and no one read them. As a former owner of a news website that received 50,000 visits per month and current owner of a hobby blog (Jiujitsu365) that receives 200 visits a day, PsychologyofSuccess was painful to operate. I hated trolling other websites commenting in the hopes they would visit my blog. I had never done that before and it made feel cheap.
I wrote this to say that if writing and sharing ‘goodness’ is your dream then you just have to find the right venue, whether online or off.
November 1st, 2009 at 2:40 am